Struggles to get out? Well, hey, good luck with that, maybe you'll get out and never be able to visit Reddit, Imgur, Hacker News and other Western shit.
Here's what changed from the 80's to the 90's from my perspective (as an 80's computer kid):
What became better:
- computers got a whole lot cheaper and easier to buy, the domestic 8-bit computers were astronomically priced, and 'grey imports' like a C64 or Amiga cost as much as an expensive car (and those were expensive) and were completely unreachable unless you had relatives in the West
- since it was suddenly possible to easily get a private phone for everyone, information exchange also got a lot easier (and legal!, e.g. in Eastern Germany, access to copying machines was restricted, owning a computer printer was legal though), information exchange between computer enthusiasts mostly happened via snail mail in the 80's
What was lost:
- the 8-bit computers in the East were mostly about education, there was (nearly) no commercial interest to sell 'gaming computers', and of course we wrote our own games because there was nothing to play on those things. Without being saturated with distractions, there was more motivation to explore and learn how those computers actually work
- shift to very few computer architectures that were successful at that time in the West (at least in Eastern Germany (in the 90's) it was either Amiga or PC, with a few Macs in schools in the 90's). But in 80's Eastern Germany alone, 5 different 8-bit architectures were built, with 9 or 10 different models, none of them a direct clone of western computers (with one exception, a late CPC clone in 1989), other Eastern Bloc countries very likely had the same number of domestically developed computers. Sure, the chips were direct clones (only Z80, no 6502, at least in Eastern-Germany), but the computer architecture and operating systems had a few unique and interesting ideas in them
- before the 90's, copyright simply didn't exist in the East, everything was copied and modified as needed without anyone giving a shit who invented or built it originally, I'd argue that this had overall a positive effect on knowledge exchange, similar to what open source is today
Looking back, I think the 90's were the dark age of computing. The boring (compared to Amiga or Atari) PC had won, Silicon Graphics went down. Nearly all useful software was commercial and expensive. It was only since the mid-2000s after Open Source and Linux had won, that things started to get interesting again.
All IMHO of course :)