Sex with a child is illegal (broadly speaking). Being sexually attracted to a child could be a source of distress for a person or lead to damaging behaviors (e.g. sex with a child).
People could have a good handle on their attraction, like the person in the article purports, but from the perspective of people writing the DSM, sexual attraction to a child may be a disorder when it leads to undue distress or disorderly behavior. When what is seen as disorderly changes, the diagnosis might change, but I see this one as sticking around.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_and_psychology#T...
You might say that homosexuality is when these ingredients get flipped, or mixed in some ratio (bisexuality).
There is quite a difference to being sexually attracted to, let's say ceiling fans, children or whatever. I think it's unfair when people put homosexuality in the same bucket as these.
Plus, there's the question of consent. Do children give consent? Can they even?
How many straight or gay adults have raped, cheated, had one night stands, to satisfy a sexual need? Countless. The sex drive is enormously powerful.
Now imagine you could never ethically satisfy that drive. Ever. While meanwhile being constantly wracked by shame and guilt every time it asserts itself.
This isn't an excuse to abuse, obviously. But its absurd to assume pedophiles have a stronger or weaker sex drive than anyone else, or that they're uniquely incapable of restraining themselves from abusing others to satisfy it.
Would it be ethical to have sex with a virtual reality child?