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by randycupertino·10y ago·view on hn ↗
"let's cuddle" "let's have sex" "I miss snuggling" "I don't want to go to sleep alone" "we never spend time together" "I can't sleep when you're not there" "I'm bored" blah blah blah.

She even emailed me some article about how Priscilla Chan made Zuckerberg sign some agreement to cuddle x amount of hours when they were dating before she would agree to move out here to be with him.

I mean, I like cuddling generally and I like sex but I have a bunch of side projects and I get a lot of work done at night! So I've started "putting her to bed" and then coming out to do work. But the problem is sometimes we have sex and then I fall asleep cuddling her, so it's kind of a trap.

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> So I've started "putting her to bed" and then coming out to do work

That is EXACTLY how I handle this

> But the problem is sometimes we have sex and then I fall asleep cuddling her, so it's kind of a trap.

Me having to sleep with a CPAP (or else horrible snoring and horrible sleep for us both) ensures that this will never occur with me (the falling-asleep-cuddling... not the sex... lol)

Tough duty. My heart goes out to you.