2) Writing the answer down in a wiki takes exactly the same amount of time as writing the answer in email. It doesn't need formalizing, just recording.
3) Again, the time it takes to tell someone is the same as the time it takes to write it down.
This is a solvable problem, we just have to break the perception that "documentation" is onerous and heavy-weight. That's what wikis were meant to solve.
For example - ppl are only allowed to answer questions with wiki links. My team did this, it worked very well. Everything was documented and everyone learned to check wiki first....