I have some concerns about CockroachDB on both the performance and the reliability fronts. But I hugely admire what they're trying to do and I've heard that they're rapidly improving in both areas. TiDB is an exciting project that I've heard great things about but have never tried myself. I think it's also relatively immature.
Honestly if I were starting a project right now and had neither FDB nor Spanner available to me, I'd probably try to push Postgres as far as I possibly could before considering anything else.