I do feel like life is a bloody attrition war against the universe. Everything is too complicated.
Income tax return? Months of paperwork and letters sent back and forth. Car insurance? You better know what you need or the agent will sell you insurance against squirrel attack. Renting an apartment? You better know all renting regulation nuances or in the best case you lose the deposit. Job search? Months long full time job. Health problems different than broken bone or blood squirting out of your body? You’re looking at months and years long waiting for diagnostics and specialist’s attention. Lawyers? Various legal trolls stalk you, but once you need one, none is available.
Whatever goes wrong - it’s always your fault, never the fault of the corporate or institutionalized other side, and penalty fees are waiting.
Even more disturbing is that this values change has seem to be paired with an aggressive demonization of and heartlessness towards the poor and infirm, even compared to 19th century norms. Today it's very common to hate the poor, the homeless, and the disabled as well as those injured by institutional iniquities and injustices. If anyone gets ground in the gears of capitalism, well, they probably deserved it. Also, why should we help the homeless and the poor when their lives are full of so many problems and they are so dirty and disgusting? That values system filters up all the way into the workforce. The worker is seen as justifiably powerless, a pawn or a cog, and if they are taken advantage of, well, they had the "choice" to not be taken advantage of, right?
It's more than a little disturbing and disheartening that we've somehow managed to end up here.