If witnessing what your society does in your name causes you distress, it's worth some contemplation, don't you think?
For example, if society is doing things "for me" behind closed doors and all I see are sanitized benefits (e.g. cheap gasoline, less stinky sewage, garbage that just vanishes, easy pieces of meat, etc.) then I'm at risk of asking for more things with nasty side-effects and I'll never really be in touch with what I'm doing to other people or the planet.
IMO, violence (against people or animals or the environment) should always be witnessed and if it's done "for us", we should have to see and do our best to understand it.