Coincidently I just saw a convincing interview with a father from the Greatest Generation where he shares his regrets on being a famous yet absent father:
I'm not judging her preference on having a successful career - I'm the same actually - yet I don't plan to have children because of that very reason...
I remember that Dr Gabor Maté also talks a lot about the scars and potential trauma a child can be left with when neglected. I remember presence of both parents to be of paramount importance. And that's not "only" a problem for the child but for society at large.