Those that come close are not “native” either. Trading the jvm for xul/scintilla (Komodo) or fucking electron, to get worse productivity and say “it isn’t jvm” is stupid IMO.
Have you ever used PyCharm? It's head and shoulders better than any other IDE for Python out there. A slight delay whenever you restart is worth the productivity improvements it grants the rest of the time.
I doubt this is even remotely true. The JVM (and the CLR, and every modern runtime) is a very well-tuned machine that performs well.
Language services make heavy use of system resources. It's effectively compiling your code as a service whenever you need it, which is a lot.
But how much of that is specifically because of the JVM and how much is just because of what it is, cannot be compared fairly IMO, because as I said in another sub-thread, theres literally nothing that has the same level of functionality across so many languages and platforms.