I’ve been single for ten years after an engagement ended in her attempted suicide. OnlyFans is a controlled, safe form of sexual interaction for me that doesn’t risk a relationship going horribly wrong again.
I also pay a cuddlist to cuddle with me twice a month.
Also, OnlyFans seems like a more ethical way to consume porn than going through a tube site where you don’t know if the upload was consensual or if it was produced by an exploitative studio or whatever.
I make more than enough to cover my living expenses, be debt free and still save half my income. This is a small discretionary expense for me.
It's to feel a connection. Porn is free. Connection is not. Creators who sell a connection make the most money. It's the same reason why guys will donate to male Twitch streamers - they want to feel like they're best friends. The streamers feed this fantasy to keep the dollars rolling.
People are lonelier these days.
I don't care if they think I'm their friend. They're providing a service that I enjoy and I should pay for it, especially now when I have the money to do so and other people may not. If you could pay $5 a month for weekly episodes of your favorite TV show, I'm guessing most folks would?
I used to subscribe to Twitch streams of pros that would play the game with their subscribers. 5 bucks a month to play a game I love with a professional? Heck yes. Playing soccer with Messi would cost a ton more.
Slightly shameful plug: I wrote about Bella/OF in my most recent newsletter issue.
Second, OnlyFans much like Patreon, isn't just about nudes it is more about the perceived personal connection to the creator. You get the opportunity to message your favorite creator directly and get responses. Some people value that personal connection more than others.
The same reason people would want to pay for porn, I guess... the difference is that they get some kind of "exclusive" pornography. I see it has become a serious money making gig for some. Making $8000 is no small money for a lot of individuals. Definitely more than the average engineer salary in Europe.
Like a pro dom teaching civil engineering classes?
Hmm...