Free software isn’t a gift to its recipients, it’s gift to the commons. It’s an open house, not an embossed invite. The other side has some agency in selecting and evaluating the gift they receive, not least because every package disclaims the lack of warranty, fitness for purpose, etc.

Does one have an obligation not to impose a bad party on their friends? Sure. Should one, seeing lights and music and sign saying ‘all are welcome’, feel a loss if they don’t enjoy what they find inside? I don’t think so.