There's something oddly wholesome about this.
For example, a lot of zoos or aquariums will have a large penguin community and they'll keep track of the family trees and relationships, friendships, enemies, all that, on a chart.
Here's one for the Sumida Aquarium: https://www.sumida-aquarium.com/sokanzu/assets/img/img_sokan...
And a similar one for the Kyoto Aquarium: https://www.kyoto-aquarium.com/sokanzu/assets/img/img_sokanz...
Note that even the staff are included in this chart...
Since macaques are considered to be very closely related to humans[0], that might be something to try if I ever find myself without mate again. I don't think that there's anything that could go wrong with that approach.
[0] https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/hide-and-seek/201402...
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This is in the FAQ at https://news.ycombinator.com/newsfaq.html and there's more explanation here:
https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=false&so...
https://chrome-stats.com/d/cmnkbhggfhfejcbmmkelcelmgpjcdkjp/...
This might also work: