Craig here from Crunchy Data. I think you're speaking to the app side of things on hobby level. On the database side of things our security posture for Crunchy Bridge I'd say is stronger than the Heroku one. By default we isolate all databases in a VPC, everything is purely single tenant where as Heroku Postgres at least when I was there had multiple forms of multi-tenancy which when doing multi-tenancy in Postgres can have risks[1]-this applies even to the major 3 cloud providers. Our team is essentially the original Heroku Postgres team so we've built with security but also user experience for Postgres in mind since day one.
Now I assume you were speaking to the 3 mentioned, render, railway, fly in terms of hobby level. All three are fairly young relative to Heroku's age, but Fly did recently get their SOC2 and the team really took it to heart and invested in it so I'd put some stock in that. I can't speak definitively to the others, but do know all three can be solid for production apps. If you've got HIPAA or other specific requirements I'd encourage a conversation with them.
[1] https://www.wiz.io/blog/the-cloud-has-an-isolation-problem-p...