It is not democratic as in "you have a vote to force others to comply to the majority", but more a democratic in "you can try to convince enough people that the major chain becomes how you like it, while the others run a minority fork".
People think "where the money goes, is where the miners go", but the blocksize wars showed that "where the users go, is where the miners go". Miners themselves don't decide on bitcoin rules, users do.
So I personally think that bitcoin is not necessarily democratic, but still highly people/community vs money driven.
FWIW, that is also true for fiat. You can become an economist, or a journalist, or a politician, or a pundit, and try to convince your country to do economics differently. It's a tall order, but it's been known to succeed. If this seems harder than the equivalent for blockchains, it's only because cryptocurrencies have much fewer users, so your voice seems more powerful.
That's not democratic at all!
It's basically trying to claim some good, without having to quantify or justify that in any way.
The US dollar is ultimately controlled by democratic institutions even if you don't count individuals using it as having any control. Therefore it is democratized money by the same vague handwaving.
is less terrifying to you?
Even if UN would finally vote to deem the invasion illegal (note: it apparently is not by the democratic votes of the UN), it probably wouldn't be stopped either.
I think comparing real world war scenarios with how consensus is found in decentralized open source protocols is a bit intellectually dishonest
Significantly less, as the central bank is usually at least accountable to the democratically elected government of the country.