Maybe the answer to the Fermi Paradox (or 'Where the hell are they?') is that they're around and doing interstellar drive-bys and we're just starting to notice.
If a species had a mere 1 million year technological lead on us, they’d certainly have nothing to fear and would only need to do a drive by every ten-thousand years or so, to keep tabs on things.
Perhaps more concerning is that we could be in between two competing species and they’re monitoring to make sure the other hasn’t colonized this system.
When it comes to aliens there are many possibilities, and few of them are good for us imo.
Or not. To paraphrase: sometimes a cigar-shaped interstellar mass is just a cigar-shaped interstellar mass.
also, might you presume such possibilities are rarely good for us because of implicit recognition how bad we humans are to other species?
1. The cost of interstellar travel is so obscenely high that the threat posed by the discovery of an alien species on their home planet would be so miniscule to us and them
2. The cost of remotely annihilating an entire species is so absurdly high as to be obviously impractical and basically impossible.
[Spoiler alert] The Dark Forest by Liu Cixin renders all of this irrelevant by the use of science fiction: it purports the existence of interstellar world-destroying weapons that any lowly member of a species can casually "flick" at a "star plucker" to obliterate them. That is not how physics or reality works.
We don't even send our trash to space because just getting it out of Earth's orbit is so ridiculously expensive, yet we're thinking about sending enough explosives to destroy an entire civilization some 100+ light-years away?
For such a civilization, I think talking about the 'cost' of things is somewhat of an abstract idea because advanced automation is surely possible for them. Once I am capable of producing a self-replicating machine capable of strong-AI level cognition all I have to do is release one at the frontier of my empire, instruct it to seed itself as widely as it can, build up massive stockpiles of processed resources and energy, and await further instructions. Such a network would be capable of nearly arbitrary levels of resource utilization, all of which could be redirected into wiping out my cosmic neighbors, since my species's immediate needs are satisfied by a similar post-scarcity system.
If I am capable of such a thing and I choose not to employ the strategy of ruthlessly exterminating all life of which I am aware I run the risk of someone else developing this technology and doing the same to me.
The only possible scenario where this doesn't hold water is if it's somehow advantageous to long-term survival of both parties to cooperate and exchange technology rather than spend resources annihilating each other. I think even the simplest game theory analysis will tell us that can't possibly be true.
There are way too many assumptions baked into what you wrote to make that the only possible scenario where the Dark Forest is incorrect.
You basically assume that the benefits of this outweigh the costs, which is entirely unfounded. You also assume that the technology for this is possible. Just saying "imagine something millions (heck I'll give you billions given how old the Milky Way is) of years more advanced than us" does not logically necessitate any of these assumptions to be true.
And if the Dark Forest is so obviously true, why hasn't it happened yet? Why are we still alive? For a 10 billion year-old galaxy, you'd imagine there's at least one other sentient species out there capable of such technology (if such technology is even ever possible in this universe, which is not yet proven of course). If you believe in the Dark Forest, then you must be indiscriminate about your killing, since one key tenet of the theory is technological explosion. A hairy ape (or even a small rodent) today may be harmless but given millions of years, could be the most intelligent species in the galaxy. So taking this to its logical end would require you to kill all life (even bacteria) whenever it's detected.
500 years ago your argument would have been: We cant even get to china in 12 weeks without considerable danger and expense, and you expect me to believe its routine for peasants to do so in 12 hours? That anyone can make a near perfect painting and send it to anyone else no matter where they are in a heartbeat - we don't even make bad paintings of anyone who isn't extremely rich because of the absurd expense of it.
The analogy with the the argument 500 years ago doesn't apply because 500 years ago we did not have the understanding of physics and chemistry that we have today. Of course we still have a lot of physics left to discover, but it's extremely unlikely that whatever new physics we discover will violate special relativity.
A handful of people today can casually "flick" entire cities out of existence, and enough such flicks could eradicate our species, and even if not it would certainly eradicate many. That would have been an absurd notion to somebody a thousand years ago. But the idea that we'll be able to destroy stars just as easily in a million years is somehow just fiction?
This thinking along the lines of "things in the past that were believed to be impossible are now possible, therefore things in the future that we now believe impossible may actually happen" is pretty poor reasoning. In the past, our understanding of the fundamental laws of physics was quite lacking. Today, although it is incomplete, our understanding of physics is considerably more advanced to preclude a lot of physically impossible things.
What if the risk of allowing another alien species to progress is so absurdly high that vast resources are allocated to create WMD to annihilate them. Then it does become trivially easy unless there’s a MAD/detente system. That’s pretty much the point of the book.
That species, left unchecked, could fill up its galaxy in the blink of an eye, by galactic timescales.
The launch of a working BvN probe is basically a permanent phase change for a galaxy.
The snowflake hypothesis is at least in the range of the "things we can't disprove", at least if by "snowflake" you mean neutron star surfaces: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dragon%27s_Egg Of course, one must consider that I'm citing a science fiction book, with all understanding of what that means. But that is at least one hypothesis I don't think we can disprove at the current time, unlike most other ideas put forth. I'd still call it an absolute long shot, and an even longer shot that such beings could leave their star.
A cat will see a book as a flat surface which probably smells of its owner and go to sleep on it. It has no other concept of "book." And if it sees an open book it can't see the contents as writing, because it has no concept of writing.
The fascinating part is that a human will see the same object but perceive it very differently because of the added human-specific knowledge and cognition.
Unless you're going to make the very bold claim that humans are the most sophisticated and advanced life in the universe, our perceptions will be limited in an analogous way.
We see clouds of dust and gas, star systems, and random background noise. An intelligence a few million years ahead of us may see the same objects as [symbol] and [relationship] in ways we literally can't imagine.
Probably in very similar ways, given how many ways there are to perceive something.
Ants, cats, and humans are all carbon-based lifeforms with eyes, nervous-systems, and brains.
Imagine how a cat perceives a bird vs. how a human perceives a bird vs. how a cloud of neutrons perceives a bird.
While I find it unlikely that aliens have travelled to our solar system specifically to visit humans, I find it incredibly unlikely that human activity have not been detected by a Sentinel probe and that this probe has not relayed this info to its creators.
Radio waves have only been emitted for ~80 years. Industrialisation changing our atmosphere ~200 years. Even if something was persistently monitoring you are relying on “The creators” being within a short distance in light years to even have been notified.
Even being extremely optimistic about the speed of light not being absolute, other than wishful thinking - what makes you think that this scenario is “incredibly likely”?
Once we can reliably detect and generate gravity waves much of our knowledge of electromagnetic waves can apply. 802.11gr anyone?
Something like a neutrino bean sounds more plausible as a communication medium than gravitational waves
I see no reason a sufficiently advanced species would choose gravitic waves over any other EM wave. Does someone with a clue (not me) have any ideas why this would be the case?