Most parents won't drastically change the financial resources or personal time they commit to their kids' development. They probably can't.

But this aspect seems immediately achievable and costs little: "It is just a way of viewing children: as capable of competence, as craving meaningful work, as worthy to be included in serious discussions. We can learn to view them like that, but it is a subtle and profound shift in perception, a shift away from the way we are taught to view children."