It's a popular tactic to describe concepts with terms that have a strong moral connotation (“meat is murder”, “software piracy is theft”, “ChatGPT is a liar”) It can be a powerful way to frame an issue. At the same time, and for the same reason, you can hardly expect people on the other side of the issue to accept this framing as accurate.
And of course you can handwave this away as pointless pedantry, but I bet that if Simon Willison hit a dog with his car, killing it by accident, and I would go around telling everyone “Simon Willison is a murderer!”, he would suddenly be very keen to ”debate linguistics” with me.
The pearl-clutching around ChatGPT reminds me of the concerns around Wikipedia when it was new: teachers told students they couldn't trust it because anyone could edit the articles. And indeed, Wikipedia has vandals and biased editors, so you should take it with a grain of salt and never rely on Wikipedia alone as a fundamental source of truth. But is it fair to summarize these valid concerns as “Wikipedia lies!”? Would that have been fair to the Wikipedia developers and contributors, most of whom act in good faith? Would it be helpful to Wikipedia readers? I think the answers are no.
Like Wikipedia, to make effective use of (Chat)GPT you have to understand a bit about how it works, which also informs you of its limitations. It's a language model first and foremost, so it is more concerned with providing plausible-sounding answers than checking facts. If you are concerned about people being too trusting of ChatGPT, educate those people about the limitations of language models. I don't think telling people “ChatGPT lies” is what anyone should be
Yes, eventually we'll all learn better. But that will take time, and detailed explanations will also take time and won't reach much of the necessary audience. And Bing is right here right now for everyone who is willing to use it. So I'm less concerned about OpenAI's reputation than about people following some hallucinated safety protocol because the bot told them that it's "100% certain" that it is the safe and proper way to do something dangerous.