However, my brain can't seem to connect which is what. I have no idea what "smelly things" smell like, or what makes a perfume smell "good".
So my family would often asked me to dispose of things that really smell or enter a really smelly room and things like that because they thought I am just "stoic" in this sense. I think they first realized that I don't smell is when I was shocked when they said that my coffee smelt nice. They went "Wait, you don't know coffee smell?". I had always faked my responses when people ask about smell and basically gave awkward smile or grief whenever is appropriate lol.
It didn't dawned on me until recently that I am missing out on a 1/5 a human experience. It also meant that I am very anxious if I am cleaning up properly (do I smell? did I miss a spot?)
Does anyone share the same experience? I wonder how you cope with this issue. I don't have any SO so I don't have a mirror that I can reflect on if the room or myself smell or whatever.
She spent about a decade of her life trying to find solutions before giving up and just living with it.
When people smell their pits, they can tell when it stinks, but they have to really get their nose in there, whereas other people smell you from 10 feet away.
As for hygiene, I learned about that late (thanks to a boss who had the courage to speak to me about it), and now I just strictly follow the same daily routine. No more being complacent with showering, and I always wash my clothes every day regardless.
It worked well so far. But when it comes to changing the bed sheets or cleaning the toilet, I tend to let my wife handle it. Because smells does not mean anything, so for me as long as it is white and without stains, it is clean.
That said, I noticed lately that I sometimes actually smell things, but it is very random and episodic, like a few seconds every few weeks or so. So now I am wondering what is actually going on and if that may be curable in my case.
It was hard at first, but I've since coped by using things with strong smells that I can still recognize. Coffee, lemon, copious amounts of cumin and parmesan, cinnamon, vanilla, etc.
What's interesting is that I can still "remember" the original smell, but it doesn't smell the same anymore.
As far as personal hygiene/cleaning...I kind of just gave up on it. I don't really care if someone tells me I smell. That's a them problem now, and I have much worse things to worry about after my brain injury.
And above all, please don't overcompensate and become one of those people who drenches themselves in perfume and air fresheners thinking people like it. They don't and there is a reason why you see signs at hospitals and schools saying to please not use that stuff.
I cope with it in my own case by being thorough in my own cleanliness - I shower and use perfume (three sprays!) every time I have to leave my house. For other things I rely on my SO.
I'm a bit of a hypochondriac but I've lived like this for 30 years so I guess if I was having some kind of mental degradation it would have been noticeable already!
I did have a minimal sense of smell, as in I could faintly smell perfumes if I sprayed it on my nose but often not animal feces or similar.
I started supplementing zinc because I suspected I was deficient in it and in about two weeks of taking 25-40mg per day (be careful, 40mg is the upper limit) I started smelling things properly.
It got to a point now after a few years that I can tell what happened in a room in the previous 30 mins when I step in.
There are upsides (smelling the sea) and downsides (dirty humans are truly something) but I love every minute of it.
Which is very subjective. I personally can't handle it, in the past I've even got headaches just from a couple perfume bottles standing around in the same room. I had to get rid of a perfumed shaving soap because it was a guaranteed headache and smelled like a chemical plant to me, while others just shrugged and said it's fine.
For example: it can be caused by Kallmann syndrome, which is associated with other midline defects, especially of the hyothalamus (delayed puberty) or palate (resulting in a cleft). It can affect the eyes, ears (hearing loss), and kidneys.
Net effect is that we eat different things, because I like "garbagey" tastes like seaweed, anise, liquorice, anchovies etc. and she can sense if dairy or fruits/vegetables will give her food poisoning past expiration date.
As for hygiene I stick to a routine and rely on other senses - if I'm feeling sort of sticky then it's definitely time to bathe.
Since then I think it's mostly recovered. Things smell how I think they should most of the time. But I always wonder if there's something out there that I'll smell completely "wrong" some day because the receptors for that particular smell just never recovered.
Only after a few years after long and intense cardio I would sometimes regain some sense of smell for about 20 minutes. Now in the last month seems to be coming back more permanently.
I'm someone who spends a lot of money on expensive perfumes like Creed and regularly burn incense in my house.
I honestly didn't feel like I was missing out on much with no sense of smell, definitely did not feel like I was missing 1/5th of the human experience. It really didn't bother me and I never went to a doctor for it. That said, I'm glad the sense is slowly coming back again.
https://creakyjoints.org/living-with-arthritis/symptoms/sjog...
Much later in life I got migraines really bad. During which all my senses went into overdrive. Sense of smell was vastly better than those around me.
Honestly, I thought about it and I'm perfectly fine not being able to smell for the rest of my life. On the flip side, I'm actually happy I'm not impacted by unwanted smells in my environment.
Having smelt before, I don't miss it, but if I was born without it I would always wonder. Well let me tell you there's not much to miss.
After years of going to doctors getting treated for polyps and allergies and all kinds of things I was diagnosed with Samter's Triad.
I know you have this since birth and it most likely is not what you have, but other people with similar symptoms may want to look into that, because not many doctors that I came across knew this.
I use fragrance free soap and cedarwood scented body wash and deodorant. As long as you're clean you should be fine. It's not something you have to worry about if you practice basic hygiene.
I didn't notice anything unusual about my hearing though.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/williamhaseltine/2022/02/14/los...
Different countries, different cultures and backgrounds, but the common denominator is loss of smell predated their dementia diagnosis by ~20 years,+/-5.
It seems to be subjectively quite awful (depression-like symptoms, difficulty walking - sports was a big part of his life) but at least I can still talk to him like an adult - it's not a proper dementia.
The strange thing - it started to come back in early February, very slightly, I could smell things I'd not been able to for a while - like cinnamon, or rose.
Tested positive for covid a few days later. Once covid tested clear using a lateral flow test my smell went.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18817519/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Olfactory_bulb
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Olfactory_nerve
I have heard that the brain kind of sticks out into the sinuses, which may not be technically correct but the illustrations etc above show that there is a uniquely direct connection between the sinuses and brain via nerves that pass through very little tissue at a minimum.
The more you know. But that also means I (< 40) shouldn't be too paranoid yet.
I've had a lot of things happen to me from lack of smell, heightened smell, tinnitus, sound sensitivity, memory issues, cognitive decline, changes in skin sensitivity, hair loss, etc. I'm confident all of this seems from my microbiome because the symptoms I'm experiencing shift every few months as I work on treating it and experience improvements and worsen.
Where you get extremely heightened sense of smell?
Because you know how covid made many people lose their sense of smell, many permanently?
It did the reverse to me, it made my sense of smell exponential. I've only read a couple stories of other people having this problem.
It's not a good thing. The world smells horrible. Way way before I can even hear the garbage truck I can smell it blocks away. Even if a street is empty early in the morning I can smell when someone has been there recently smoking cigarettes or other.
It's like some kind of fight or flight survival instinct or adaptation is triggered by the immune system.
But yeah very very poor sense of smell with olfactory hallucinations and I got a bunch of T2 flares around my bilateral occipital horns so that sounds plausible.
I never understood why loss of smell became such a focus with Covid, that symptom wasn't novel and I never found anything definitive studies finding it to be more common with Covid vs the others.
[1] https://www.yalemedicine.org/conditions/smell-and-taste-diso...
So "OMG I can't smell it must be dementia" needs to be modulated through "yea: have you had a lifetime of squirting stuff up your nose"
Hence (and other reasons, but this would be one) the MAY in the title.