Or keep blacklist/whitelist since it comes from black and white which are colors and have nothing to do with race.

Rewriting etymology makes no sense IMHO. I kind of understand wanting to get rid of slave/master (though I’m not for it either, after all it is slaves and master when used in IT; we should not be afraid of words, but that’s another rant), but for black and white list it makes no sense to want to get rid of it AFAICT, apart from definitely saying black and white persons are indeed different.

When using stupid rules to rule the words, we get stupid things, like people wanting to change the word history to his or herstory. Yes, seriously.

We have to stop.