(1) Your beliefs about what happened to FoundationDB's customers are incorrect. Everybody who had a FoundationDB license when we were acquired either got a free license to the software in perpetuity at their current levels (the free tier), or in the case of our paid customers, they were able to continue using it on an even larger scale in the future. None of our paying customers were screwed.
(2) We are not aiming for an acquisition or any other kind of early exit. Our previous successes enable us to be a little bit more risk-neutral this time.
(3) Even if we did vanish, what have you actually lost at this point? If your operational database gets yanked (which, I reemphasize, didn't actually happen to anybody), then you're screwed. If your exotic software testing technology gets yanked, then you're literally exactly where you are today. Doesn't seem like as big a risk to me.
Apologies if my answers here were not diplomatic or whatever, but I try to be very direct about this stuff.
EDIT:
Actually let me add a number (4) We have validated that people are willing to pay for Antithesis, and we have a growing business being built. To the extent we're an attractive acquisition target, it's likely to be due to the strength of our business and their desire to scale it out / make it more widely available, and not simply to improve the internal tech stack of an acquirer internally.
BTW, one example of an FDB customer that was still a small startup when we were acquired was Snowflake. They obviously had no problems continuing to grow and use FDB, as they still use FoundationDB as their core metadata storage today and have since they started working with us.