> unlike Triplebyte, we interview you only if, conditional on you doing well, we have a job you'd be interested in
That sounds really prudent.
> What you're saying, in essence, is "you should lie to me and tell me you're bigger than you are if you want to get off the ground".
I'm not asking you to do that, I'm glad you're being so honest. You're right the network effect is challenging and fomo/dishonesty is a common attempt to try to circumvent it.
There's probably no easy legal way to do this, but if there were a way to give like $50 bucks of stock to each serious resume uploaded, or double that to anybody who recommends you to their current company [not sure what's involved with that] then it might create more of a sense of "rooting for you"