I find myself able to 'co-navigate' a question or idea with the LLM, better than most other people around me, as defined by quality of model output. But it's just now dawning on me that this might be explained by more than me having greater general knowledge, or having a certain personality.
Somehow, I have an intuition for what words or phrases the LLM might have a tendency to overfit on, so I avoid those in my prompts. I likewise know what words to specifically use or emphasize so that I can trigger the LLM to tap into a certain knowledge-pool based on those.
When I see my friends engage with LLMs, I witness the lower quality output they get because they are not deploying the same intuitions in their prompts, and it's hard to teach them.