So in practice the experiment only works with very small systems with a few atoms. Each year there are experiments with bigger systems, but they are usually frozen and very small. Perhaps one day we will be able to do the experiment with tardigrades.
In other words it's not the act of "listening" that collapses the wave function but the interaction of air molecules that creates the sound in the first place, even if no one is there to listen.
A "measurement" or an "observation" doesn't actually require a human, or a living thing. It's just a physical interaction.
This is wrong, they do collapse, you can test this using the double slit experiment. No human has to be there for the wavefunction to collapse and thus break entanglement.
If what you said was true then this wouldn't be a part of physics, physics is only about stuff we can measure not nonsense that has no meaning.
Theoretically, as far as it is known today, it is possible for a quantum system of any size, and at any temperature, to remain in a coherent state, if it could be perfectly isolated from the rest of the world.
Any limits to this process, where a perfectly isolated system would undergo wave function collapse without any outside interference, would be a Nobel-prize worthy discovery and would constitute a new theory of physics: quantum mechanics and QFT allow no such process.
Edit: and the double slit experiment is unrelated - the screen and the slit are noisy classical systems that are not in any way isolated from the rest of the classical world. In principle, if you performed the experiment using a screen and slits made entirely of atoms entangled with the emitter, and isolated perfectly from the rest of the world and the CMB and everything, you'd get a different result: this is what QM predicts.
Double slit experiments shows collapse happens without any outside interference, nothing outside of the room has to do anything for the resulting measurements to show collapse happened. You can then afterwards enter the room, look at the recorded data and see that collapses did happen.
So you must have misunderstood what those theories says about collapses. They don't say exactly when collapses happens or what causes them, that is the unsolved problem, but we can know that they do happen.
But what if instead you had a screen that was itself a quantum system? You'd then use the Schrodinger equation without any collapse (without the Born rule) to describe the results. You'd have to perform other measurements on the quantum screen to obtain a classical result that can be interpreted, of course. But nothing in QM says that there is some size limit, so in principle it should be possible to prepare a quantum system of any size, including the size of a typical double slit experiment screen, that doesn't collapse.
Unitary evolution can destroy superposition of the small subsystem by introducing negligible amount of superposition into large system.
In Schroedinger cat experiment, the evolution is not thermalization but rather entangling the whole cat with atom state. I don't think we're really puzzled about it now, since we know that macroscopic objects can be in superposition. So cat, theoretically, can be in superposition of alive and dead until measured. I don't think there is any contradiction or confusion here physics-wise.
In other words, the fact that an observation takes place from within the box and collapses the wave function for an observer in the box does not mean that the wave function for every observer also collapses. A wave function collapse for one observer does not imply a wave function collapse for any other observer.
No it isn't, why do you think this? If it was we wouldn't be able to see it in our experiments, as where the particle ends up would depend on which observer is looking, which would get absurd consequences.
Do note that the result of the experiments is not going to differ, it is guaranteed to be consistent by the fact that both experiments are measuring the same quantum system. It's just that one observer is unsure of what result they will get for a subsequent experiment, while the other observer can know it exactly.
And in the many worlds interpretation, it is indeed believed that apparent wave function collapse is a relative phenomenon, caused by entanglement with the classical environment, which spreads out at the speed of light.
We do know that they can't disagree as collapsed particles behave differently than uncollapsed particles.
> It's just that one observer is unsure of what result they will get for a subsequent experiment, while the other observer can know it exactly.
Quantum systems aren't about knowledge or statistics, the wave function is an actual physical thing that changes how the particle behaves. If the wave function has collapsed it no longer behaves the same as before, so what you said here is wrong.
For example, when performing measurements on two entangled particles at very far away places, the wave function collapses instantly, across any distance, even light years away. After that experiment, the result on the other side is 100% determined (if performed in the same basis). But there is no experiment whatsoever that could be done to tell if the collapse has happened or not from the other side.
This is the resolution of the famous EPR paradox: wave function collapse is non-local (instantaneous), but it is probably impossible to send classical information with it faster than the speed of light limit.
You seem to just want to argue for the sake of arguing.
Of course, a second measurement device that's completely isolated from the first measurement device can eventually interact with the first measurement device and the two will converge and share the same wave function. However, until the second measurement device interacts with the first one or with the original quantum system being observed, then from the point of view of the second measurement device, the first measurement device is in a superposition of all the possible states that it could have observed.
This can continue on and on, with a third measurement device which is entirely isolated from the second measurement device having a wavefunction that's a superposition of all the possible observations that the second measurement device will observer...
Wave function collapse is a real measurable phenomena, what you describe is not measurable so just a belief, don't mix in your beliefs with actual results.
https://youtu.be/FrTq_m1pLz8?t=2188
Quantum mechanics forces two infinities upon us when attempting to make precise observations. The first is the need for infinitely many measurements, stemming from the probabilistic nature of quantum predictions. To obtain a sharp notion of probability, we must perform an experiment infinitely often, converging to the true probability in the limit. The second infinity involves an infinitely large measuring apparatus. This arises because any finite measuring device is itself subject to quantum fluctuations, introducing an intrinsic imprecision to measurements. The degree of imprecision scales as e^(-n), where n is the number of particles composing the measuring device. While the first infinity is often discussed and practically relevant in experimental settings, the second is less commonly addressed but conceptually significant. These infinities highlight fundamental limitations in our ability to make precise quantum measurements and become particularly problematic when gravity is introduced into the picture.
Now, the process of atom decay that would be registered by a Geiger counter has some interesting properties and that's where the "quantum magic" happens.
(at least, that's my mental model of it; ask an expert, I'm not an expert)
But nobody knows what "observed" even means.
It is very hard to demonstrate that fact though, the obvious way of doing it is to build a large quantum computer.
My understanding of quantum mechanics is pretty shallow so take this with an ocean of salt.
Not at all, the superposition spreads to the interacting particles. What destroys superpositions are measurements and we do not know what measurements really are.
Therefore, the cat observes itself.
Not anymore, not according to this theory.