trade is manipulation
if you give ants sugar water in order for them to behave that's useful to you is it trade or manipulation?
> Trade - as we'd recognize it - implies consent,
Manufacturing this consent is a large part of the business of trade.
We don't have explicit trade with ants, they don't explicitly trade with us, yet the ants are doing just fine. One of the most prevalent and prolific species of life on the planet Earth, Ants will arguably be here long after the stupid humans and their super intelligent computers are long gone.
Is there any science fiction that features far-future highly evolved ants ?
We don't kill all ants either.
Even humans work with the principle of collateral damage with each other so if the idea is that AI would suddenly be without mistakes then that's already missing the point of what intelligence is. But just like humans any AI that is "super intelligent" will also need to have morals and ethics (or it can't figure out what IT want and doesn't want) and there is nothing that indicates they shouldn't be extensions of ours as we will be interfacing with them long before any superintelligence comes along, in fact it just as likely that it's our morals and ethics and culture that gets passed on and that biological humans don't get obliterated by AI but simply die out over time.
There is nothing bad about that, our genes survived.
While an AI that's magnitudes smarter than humankind is likely to arise at some point - smarter in a way that will be hard / impossible for us to comprehend - dealing with a species that is able to evolve itself in a self-guided way will be very different than dealing with a colony of instinct-driven ants.
As for the question of should we stop AI research before this happens -- only if the world would have been a better place if insects could have stopped mammals from developing.