It's a great segue into real/high-value commercial endeavors if you're lucky. For others not so fortunate, they graduate into a Starbucks barista role.
I'm just a lowly keymasher, but I have a college classmate who is a US Senator. Do I envy him? Why, no; no, I do not.
Does this job have compensation/benefits equal to being a lowly keymasher?
But that is a different question than the one of shame.
Barista itself is probably not a full career path, but there is nothing wrong with it as a waypoint.
So yeah, I can see how someone would feel shame in that even if they didn't publicly admit it. An interesting question for you from here is, what do you think about the people who are in "nothing wrong with it as a waypoint" jobs?
What else are they doing? Do they have goals? Are they socially connected and building up those around them?
You might see someone, for example, busking on the corner and jump to a wildly erroneous conclusion about them... https://x.com/bluezharp/status/1822666701814608086
You're not engaging with the real and acute problem of, 1) keypusher gets to look at barista and say "oof, no medical insurance, no investments, living paycheck to paycheck" must be their waypoint, hopefully at 10 years deep into that barista career they get their break as a senior ruby engineer, good thing they were "just at a waypoint"
2). > What else are they doing? Do they have goals? Are they socially connected and building up those around them?
Are they healthy? Have they been able to maintain the same level of fitness as someone who works 4 hours a week writing internal tooling vs dodging traffic and dealing with an equally financially unstable manager screwing their ability to pay rent the next week?
Really smitty