About three years ago, I purchased my first Mac. It was an early 2009 iMac. Before then, I had only owned a Windows machine, and like you, I was also incredibly invested in Windows.
But when I got my Mac, I just found doing simple things a challenge, and the various interfaces not powerful enough. To this day, I still struggle using Finder, mostly because there's no (native) way of browsing folders and files separately like in Windows.
But that's just one example, and I really don't have time to list the many other ways I found the switch difficult.
So again, I'm curious to know your secret. I don't know, maybe I was even more invested in Windows than yourself.