Make it an option then.

sample: You don't know about me without you have read a book by the name of The Adventures of Tom Sawyer; but that ain't no matter.[...] I been there before.

Attending Burning Man made me simultaneously one of the most photographed people on the planet and one of the least surveilled humans in the modern world.[...]I gathered Ange into a hug that started off stiff and awkward and then turned into the most familiar feeling in the world.