I really hope the Ruby Communities do actually admit Ruby is Slow. Because until you actually admit there is a problem, there will never be any notion of wanting to fix it.
Most of the time, they will come up with Rails Examples or serving dynamic web pages, and the bottleneck being in Database. And the higher amount of request you get, you can solve it with caching.
This is, in my view a very limited scope of Ruby usage.
They deny any wrong doing of Ruby, suggesting it is a dynamic languages, and it's wrong comparing to a compiled languages, or the algorithm are done wrong.
They keep suggesting under xxx usage, Ruby is fast enough to get the job done.
Then there is the argument of throwing more money and hardware to grow and scale. But the truth is most of time Ruby will require more then a few dedicated servers to keep going. While it is not as drastic as the iron.io 28 to 1, but for startup lowering running cost is important too.
Then there is this arguments comes up which i hated most. You are not going to worry about the need of that many servers, or scaling that needs to change to another languages unless you are AirBnb, Twitter etc..... I mean what? I am sorry i may not have worded it correctly but most of the time those read like you are never going to be successfully that you are very unlikely to have to worry about.
Performance is important!. And for most this isn't about pushing it to Javascript V8 or insane 1000x programmer Mike did with LuaJIT. It is just Ruby should have a more respectable performance VM. While Ruby is designed to make programmers happy, I am pretty sure there are many aren't happy with its basic performance.