"Evolution doesn’t care about you past your reproductive age. It doesn’t want you either to live longer or to die, it just doesn’t care"
I've heard this statement a few times, and it appears to be untrue. Menopause, in particular, is evidence of this - that humans evolved to shut down reproduction at a certain age rather than allow it to peter out - perhaps because grandparents are so relevant in the evolutionary prospects of their descendants.
This next part is most certainly a nitpick, but the statement "nature/evolution doesn't care", while not meant literally, does fall into the trap of assigning intent or purpose to evolution (in this case, more subtly, through the presence of absence of caring, rather than the non-existence of intent).