In defining a framework, fundamentally you are coming up with a set of types and describing how things of these types are able to interact with one another; if it's a framework that's easy to work with, the number of types, relations, and operations is small (relative to other formulations). If this framework is concise, but the universe of things described by it is large, then the types must be very general. Therefore, using an approach of finding an elegant framework, rather than mastering the complexity of an inelegant framework, relies heavily on one's ability to generalize.
My issue with spending a lot of time thinking this way is that it gives me a sort of uneasy feeling... What are these super abstract generalizations? From what I can tell, this mostly comes from wondering whether with all this 'zooming out' we are getting closer to truths about the universe, or our own minds—and the latter possibility feels a little suffocating.
Anyone know any books, essays, whatever taking up that issue?
There would be, because even if you could record with perfect fidelity the rest of the universe, at the very least, you can't record that hard drive on itself.
Thinking about it directly again has given me a slightly different perspective, though. Maybe this resemblance of extremely general structures to human mental structures just relates to facility of expression, and isn't necessarily moving us further from objectivity—it's just easier for us to express our concepts as parameterizations of a structure that resembles the abstract structure of human concepts. The different parameterizations we can supply constitute all possible human concepts—but the important thing is that some of those concepts will be valid descriptions of objective phenomena, and those are the ones we attempt to supply.
No. First of all, it resembles a structure human minds can hold, not most structures human minds invent. It took work to get to category theory, thousands of years of it. Also, if the human mind didn't contain some small kernel of ability to accurately generalize from the real world, it wouldn't function as a living creature's mind, so we can trust, in the sense of a proof of existence, that evolution built us to reason correctly sometimes.