but it was systemd that pushed me towards it, I'm not bound by random binaries that do random things with little documentation- everything is very clearly understandable and I can even guess what things will be doing with a large degree of accuracy.
the whole thing seems much more "sane", but- Linux is a better desktop in my opinion.
And I got completely tired of "distributionitis" on Linux--"Oh, you can't upgrade that particular package without upgrading every other package on the system."
pkg upgrade apache22
is unsupported, but it might work.If you understand the potential consequences you can do what you wish with the ports tree as an advanced user.
Modern Linux distros are messy and complex. I'm sure it's for good reason, they provider a ton of feature and tools for running very large installations. I just don't need that, we don't have more servers than you could reasonably manage manually.
I miss the consistency and simplicity of OpenBSD every time I log into one of our servers.